A Synonym For Spite
Another day, another drama involving the changing rooms of schoolgirls – and another illustration of how wokeness – all that progressive piety – can be a mask for other motives:
Nicole Georgas revealed that on February 5, her daughter came home “frightened” and “upset” after finding a male student in the girls’ bathroom at school. Concerned, Georgas contacted the administration, and was told that under direction from their legal counsel, that if the student identifies as female, they are free to use any of the sex-segregated facilities as they so choose.
And hey, what could possibly go wrong?
Ah.
Quite right, one might think.
Oh.
“You wicked girls will undress in front of this weird, cross-dressing boy, and you will do it over and over again.”
I paraphrase, of course. Though not, I think, wildly.
Readers are invited to ponder the psychology in play at this terribly progressive school. The triumphal righteousness of compelling thirteen-year-old schoolgirls to undress in front of a mentally ill male or opportunist pervert. A mentally ill male or opportunist pervert that the schoolgirls do not trust. Resulting in the girls feeling frightened and upset.
Imagine that tingle of power. All wrapped in a drag of modish piety.
After Mrs Georgas’ daughter refused to take part, understandably, a compromise of sorts was suggested:
You see,
Entirely at the expense of others.
Such that, “the discomfort or privacy concerns of other students, teachers, or parents are not valid reasons to deny or limit the full and equal use of facilities based on a student’s gender-related identity.” Instead, any girl who doesn’t appreciate being ordered to undress in front of a boy – a boy she does not trust – will be deemed the aberrant party, the one whose behaviour is problematic.
And so, rather than relocate the “trans-identified” boy to (a) the boys’ changing room, or (b) an existing “gender-neutral” space for His Super-Special Self, any girls who complain about the incongruity, the moral inaptness, are to be relocated and isolated. Leaving more compliant girls to endure the indignity and weirdness. Such is wokeness.
At a subsequent public meeting of the Deerfield School District 109 School Board, held on Thursday, Mrs Georgas explained,
Allowing biological males to access girl’s locker rooms sets a dangerous precedent that erodes the very foundation of female privacy and safety. By making this decision, the school board is not only disregarding the concerns of young female students, but also establishing a legal and policy framework that will make it increasingly difficult to protect the integrity of female-only spaces in the future.”
Well, yes, pretty much.
And yet the following speaker, a visibly self-satisfied woman named Charles Friedman, who declares herself “a transgender person” and who also just happens to have a transgender child – hey, what are the odds? – was all too happy to disregard the particulars of Mrs Georgas’ complaint and its wider implications.
Indeed, the lady named Charles, a trans activist – one of many present – dismissed the concerns above as “bullying.” Presumably on grounds that not allowing boys to barge into the changing rooms of thirteen-year-old girls and then watch them undress is an act of oppression. A denial of basic rights.
Those with an appetite for grim surrealism can watch the outpourings of subsequent speakers, for whom pronoun stipulation is a thing, for whom big earrings and nail polish establish womanhood, and for whom the creepy violation of thirteen-year-old schoolgirls is a basis for applause.
Should any tender-hearted readers be tempted to assume that the above must be some one-off aberration, by all means think again. And do note the updates to that particular farce.
Previous changing-room adventures – in which the word pattern comes to mind – can be found here, here, here, and here.
Update, via the comments:
Regarding this,
Liz adds, not unreasonably,
Indeed. And yet, in the video of the school board meeting, subsequent speakers, all trans activists, many of whom travelled from far out of town, casually dismiss or ignore the clearly stated concerns, and denounce Mrs Georgas as a bully, a bigot, and, bizarrely, a “white supremacist.”
Because you’re not allowed to object to your children being psychologically abused.
And the option proposed by the school, and affirmed by Ms Charles Friedman, our self-satisfied trans activist – the one who just happens to have a transgender child – is likely to result in further drama. Or the same drama repeated.
If girls who object to a boy’s presence in their changing room are told to change somewhere else, and not in their own changing room, then it seems entirely possible that one by one, quite rapidly, the other girls will follow suit, resulting in the cross-dressing boy having the girls’ changing room all to himself. At which point, this may be invoked as yet another form of bigotry and oppression.
And perhaps the boy or his activist parents, or likely activist parent, will demand he be given access to whichever new space the girls have been obliged to retreat to. Because his psychodrama must be imposed on others, regardless of their objections. And around we go again.
And – as so often – note just how readily the school administrators, these uniformly progressive women, will sell out their supposed sisters. The daughters of their neighbours. In order to look fashionable, and therefore high-status.
It’s also, I think, worth noting the demeanour of Ms Friedman, our trans activist. During her speech, she shows little interest in the concerns of parents. Instead, she is dismissive, self-satisfied and visibly triumphal. The tone is basically, “We have the power over your children now. Suck it up, bitches.”
I can’t help but think that’s rather telling.
I should add that the degree of woke perversity – such that girls who object to the humiliation are the ones deemed problematic and aberrant – is so pronounced that a sense of unreality may ensue. For instance, readers may wish to imagine themselves at the school board meeting above, hearing Mrs Georgas speak, and then hearing her being booed, called absurd names, and her concerns being gleefully dismissed. By men in bad drag.
In light of which, it’s difficult to see any plausible common ground. When activist attendees would rather jeer and preen, and call concerned parents bigots and racists, rather than address their actual concerns, it’s not obvious what room for compromise, or debate, there could be.
Ultimately, either mentally ill boys and opportunist creeps can pretend to be girls and invade schoolgirls’ changing rooms, or they can’t.
Answers on a postcard, please.
We used to call this a humiliation ritual.
Note that the subsequent speakers, all trans activists, casually dismissed or ignored the stated concerns, and denounced Mrs Georgas as a bully, a bigot, and a “white supremacist.”
Because you’re not allowed to object to your children being psychologically abused.
And the option proposed by the school, and affirmed by Ms Friedman, our self-satisfied trans activist, the one who just happens to have a transgender child, is likely to result in further drama. Or the same drama repeated.
If girls who object to a boy’s presence in their changing room are told to change somewhere else, and not in their own changing room, then it seems entirely possible that one by one, quite rapidly, the other girls will follow suit, resulting in the cross-dressing boy having the girls’ changing room all to himself. At which point, this may be invoked as yet another form of oppression.
And perhaps he, or his activist parents, or likely parent, will demand he be given access to whichever new space the girls have been obliged to retreat to. Because his psychodrama must be imposed on others, regardless of their objections.
And around we go again.
I am curious whether any of the school authorities happened to check if the “new girl” had developed during all this a “boner” (as we politely termed it back in the day). Or would such a thing be see as mere self-expression?
It’s not happening, and if it is it’s just a local news story, and you watch too much Fox News anyway. No big deal. I asked grok if any legitimate mainstream news sources were covering it and got this response…
This story will likely die and go away. Don’t want you friends, neighbors, and relatives to think you’re crazy do you?
BTW, did you know that in the US you can check on what political groups your friends, neighbors, and relatives donated money to, even if it’s less than $100? Yeah, that private $100 donation thing went bye-bye apparently a dozen years ago or so.
That.
Let’s call it what it is. Child abuse.
It’s perhaps worth noting the demeanour of Ms Friedman, our trans activist with a feeble moustache. During her speech, she shows little interest in the stated concerns or their obvious implications. Instead, she is dismissive, self-satisfied and visibly triumphal. The tone is basically, “We have the power over your children now. Suck it up, bitches.”
I can’t help but think that’s rather telling.
It’s like we’re living in a mad house.
The inversion, the perversity, is quite something.
I should add that the degree of perversity – such that girls who object to the humiliation are the ones deemed problematic and aberrant – is so pronounced that a sense of unreality may ensue. I mean, imagine being at the school board meeting linked above, hearing Mrs Georgas speak, and then hearing her being booed, called absurd names, and her concerns being gleefully dismissed.
It’s like something from an old episode of Quatermass.
Let the names and faces of those administrators be permanently available in a public database of known sociopaths.
A combination mad house and Soviet prison.
You can’t live with these people.
Well, it’s getting difficult to see any plausible common ground. When activist attendees would rather jeer and preen, and call concerned parents bigots and, bizarrely, “white supremacists,” rather than address their obvious and clearly stated concerns, it’s not obvious what room for compromise, or debate, there could be.
Ultimately, either mentally ill boys and opportunist creeps can pretend to be girls and invade schoolgirls’ changing rooms, or they can’t.
Answers on a postcard, please.
And – once again – note how readily these appalling progressive women will sell out their supposed sisters. The daughters of their neighbours. In order to look fashionable, and therefore high-status.
I mean, at some point one’s tolerance of bizarre and self-ratcheting dysfunction must end with a no.
Best not to push it, really.
Apposite observation:
Having worked in education for many years I am not surprised 1) by how incompetent the administrators are; and 2) that they are all women.
You’d think these female admin would be in the side of or sympathetic to the girls’ plight. You’d be very wrong.
in my experience, the more admin spots occupied by women, the worse the school becomes. This story does not disprove my thesis.
and:
Theodore Dalrymple wrote, in Our Culture, What’s Left of It:
Boundaries. Worth considering.
It’s funny how often the world can feel like one ongoing shit test.
Big Brother is greedy.
Good and hard:
Illinois is considered a blue state, one of the three largest states that consistently supports Democratic Party federal candidates alongside California and New York.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Politics_of_Illinois
I believe it is the new policy that the DOJ will investigate mixed locker rooms as violations of Title IX or VII or something. But, as always, there are only so many hours in a day and crazies like this can get away with shit for a long time before stopped.
Some women are deeply into humiliating other women. I think of madams who operate brothels or otherwise act as procurers.
When oh when does our society recognize Cluster B behavior as the pathology it is and reject it out of hand? When do we recognize how incredibly toxic some women are — and that it’s a highly female-coded type of toxicity — and also reject it out of hand, just as we reject toxic male predation in the workplace?
I’ll be over here holding my breath.
“At least it’s happening to someone else.”
Elsewhere in the world of education.
Genital checks: we already had those. Performed by a doctor once in your life and recorded on your birth certificate.
Passing: you’re living a lie convincingly enough and long enough that the discovery of the lie will hurt both you and the friends you made under false pretenses – that’s a good reason to not live a lie, it’s not a good reason to compel the community to put its official stamp on your lies and to legally sanction truth-seekers.
It’s a girl, and if you think otherwise it’s racism… The analogy isn’t of a black person claiming to be white or vice versa – officially, race doesn’t exist but trans-race is problematic. It’s about a black immigrant into a historically white country, and how the will of the immigrant is primary, the documentation should follow the will, and the feelings of the members of the organic historic community are irrelevant and racist. We’re not in a nicey-nicey liberal atmosphere where we’re patting ourselves on the back for dealing with exceptional situations in a broad-minded and sympathetic way. It’s about the primacy of the will and imposing it on others.
A friend in Hi-Tech points out that after the industrial and information revolutions, the truly gifted are still working overtime while the malevolent and foolish have been relieved of the productive work that once tethered them to reality – including the reality of their own limitations.
Farm labor kept most of these dolts not only busy, but isolated from each other (literally “out standing in the field”). Then came mechanisation and they crowded into cities, where they were given enough education to cause trouble.
And here we are.
This tweet wins the internet for the foreseeable future.
As others have noted, it’s an odd hill to die on.
Not nearly as many as they would have you believe, especially as age inflicts its indignities.
Wasn’t there a documentary along those lines?
There’s bullying going on. Poor Charles just doesn’t realize (s)he’s one of the baddies. Along with the principal, the school and the school board.
Sooner or later, everyone comes around to patriarchy.
Activist: I insist you capitulate to my absurd demands.
Normie: Fuck off.
Activist: You are committing genocide.
“Sane.”
Which means that allowing gangsters in wasn’t an inadvertent side effect of letting in the others. It was part of the plan.
I have to suspect that the carteles have been greasing palms and making credible threats in our country, and that they were being allowed to set up their criminal enterprises in this country in exchange for something.
Good luck uncovering that web of influence, tho. I doubt they leave much of a trace.
Furthermore, the hard left consciously seeks ways to destabilize our society and destroy social trust. (While the squishy liberals go along because they’re ignorant, stupid, and morally flaccid.)
Trying hard to keep up but wasn’t the Left the party that was all about women’s spaces and consent? The one that said all men are rapists? The “me too” party? Oh, right, I forgot, these trans 14 yr olds are “real women”, obviously. Sorry for my mistake.
As if no teen boy would do that just to get in the girl’s locker room…
“Not yet, but I’m warming to the idea.”
You might be surprised. The cartels don’t really care about being sneaky because they’ll just murder anyone who gets in their way. They have no fear of the police or the government because they’ll just buy off or murder anyone who gets too close. And their entire families.
Here in Canada, the evidence that the government and the RCMP are thoroughly compromised by the CCP and Latin American drug cartels is all over the place, but since the government controls all the major media outlets the average Canadian will never see it.
!!!
I am pretty sure I could tell if a person is male or female based on their reactions to the following situations: a bird poops on their head; a bee is flying around them; their hotdog falls in the grass; a dog is barking at them; a small child is crying; someone points out that their clothes don’t match; they are tossing a toddler in the air; they are yelling at the coach in their child’s after school sport.
Another test: they can answer detailed questions about WWII. They understand how the furnace works. (and similar) or for the ladies, they can name all the colors in a color chart (rather than lumping).
A funny meme is “a book of all the things men understand about women” and the pages are blank. Most guys nod knowingly at this meme. Yet the trans insist they are the opposite sex, which they likely do not understand at all (and thus the cartoonish nature of their imitations).
I’m trans and my child is trans too and my dog is also trans and I’m not crazy…
The relation of ‘squishy liberals’ to the ‘hard left’ bears more than a passing resemblance to that of ‘moderate Muslims’ to ‘radical Muslims’.
[ Fetches index card, pen, writes down morally flaccid. ]
Just curious how many 13 girls who identify as boys are demanding to get naked in the boys locker room? If not, why not? And in the solving that “riddle” … you might discover why this a problem for the girls.
One of my favorite films “The Red Violin” filmed a wonderful example of the shaming ritual employed by those women school administrators. Yeah, Mao called them – struggle sessions.
https://youtu.be/GTxBodxAYAk?si=KoMi2Vch0qS0gv1N
we are in a life and death struggle to save our culture and our sanity from the terminally wokerati
IIRC one of the very first lawsuits (maybe ten years ago?) over boys in girls’ spaces involved just this scenario. The girls refused to dress/shower in the boy’s presence and went to a girls’ restroom across campus to change. AND HE FOLLOWED THEM.
Which calls to mind this post on the dishonesties of San Francisco’s militant nudists:
Same energy, as I believe the kids say.
At some point the consequences must escalate from strict to severe and then to dire.