Where Pretending Gets You
Via TomJ in the comments:
The head of one of Scotland’s biggest rape crisis centres has suggested “bigoted” rape survivors should be re-educated about transgender rights as part of recovering from their trauma. Mridul Wadhwa, a transgender woman, said people would not truly recover unless they addressed their “unacceptable beliefs” because “therapy is political.” She said: “We will work with you… but please expect to be challenged on your prejudices.” The comments imply rape survivors may be treated differently according to their political views.
So, a woman who has just been traumatically violated by a man pretending to be something that he isn’t, i.e., a lover, and been forced to submit to his fantasies, is now to face another man pretending to be something that he isn’t. And will be forced to submit to his fantasies.
Update:
Wadhwa, a self-styled “strategic thinker,” insists that “therapy is political” – which apparently means that a woman who’s been raped by a man and then seeks help from other women will be told, on the orders of a man, that she “can’t really… recover from trauma” until she “reframes” that experience to incorporate the most modish and deranging iteration of transgender ideology. Failure to do so is “unacceptable” and will of course be “challenged.” Because priorities.
The centre is currently advertising for a chief operating officer, who must also be a woman, and says applications from trans women would be “especially welcome.”
Must be a woman – or even better, not.
As STG says in the comments,
Imagine going to your first counselling session after being raped and realising that the counsellor considers their problems more important than yours. And then realising that, in addition, the therapist wants emotional support from you, and that if you don’t give it, you are considered a bad person. And this is policy.
Indeed. Readers are invited to imagine, too, the precise level of self-preoccupation required in the scenario above. To insert one’s own psychodrama into that situation, of all situations. It’s practically sociopathic. Yet here we are.
Update 2:
And because things aren’t sufficiently bizarre, from elsewhere in the article:
Wadhwa also attempted to address concerns about natal males being in rape crisis centres by arguing “men are already in these spaces” because they were involved in decisions about its funding and “planning permission.”
Yes, you read that correctly. Planning permission.
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[…]no small number of people’s entire identities and sense of purpose […] would be threatened by any change from the status quo of All Men Are Evil.
This is the exact same phenomenon in the American K-12 education-industry complex. An entire machine of political graft, cultural influence, massive budgets, and charged with perhaps the most important societal task (ostensibly educating the young in hard facts and cultural tradition), Big Ed is wholly led and administered by insanely dogmatic
peoplewomen who cannot admit that their policies have been an objective failure – on their own terms! – for generations. Oh sure, there’s constant upheaval and “change” from on high (done haphazardly and causing even more harm than even steady incompetence), but it all springs from the same ideology, one which cannot be questioned lest the entire industry admit it’s been royally fucking things up.See also: Democrat-run, minority-majority cities.
Is it just me, or is everyone a little too familiar with current year authoritarianism? Daniel mentions he* cannot travel or leave his country and we (including myself) went, “Canada, eh?”
*assuming you’ve avoided the jackboot jab
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Argh. Try these:
Shot.
Chaser.
Big Ed is wholly led and administered by insanely dogmatic […] women who cannot admit that their policies have been an objective failure – on their own terms! – for generations.
I think I’ve mentioned this here before, but it bears repeating: I once knew an elementary school teacher who had rocketed up the ranks of her profession, reaching assistant principal and the Sunshine List. Much of that was because the district was desperate to promote women to senior admin positions, but she let me in on her secret: she had a quite a corpus of academic papers she’d presented at conferences to bolster her career, and she generated it by looking up whatever pedogogical fad had been in vogue ten years prior, rewriting the major paper(s) on the topic, and submitting it as new. When I pointed out that 1) this implied that pedagogy was simply cycling between the same set of paradigms over and over and that 2) that implied that either none of them was any better than another, or else no one knew which was better than any other, making the whole field a sham, she stopped talking to me.
Said teacher also bragged about the fact that she’d successfully evaded the board’s IT security so she could play World of Warcraft all day in her office, and that there were many scantily clad WoW cosplay photos of her in the wild.
Daniel mentions he* cannot travel or leave his country
Oh, of course Canada would never, ever prevent its own citizens from leaving the country. Why, we’re not East Germany! You just can’t get on a plane or a train without injecting yourself with untested viral gene therapy twice, and you can’t cross into the US on land without it either. But if you can drive to a major port city and stow away on an outbound freighter your freedoms are completely intact.
“Let’s see yer papers, b’y.”
If you can evade your border control, you should have smooth sailing. I’m pretty sure all of our guys are in Texas, busily stacking new arrivals with forklifts and front-end loaders.
Texas is a disgusting and terrible place where essentially no modern conveniences are available. The weather is atrocious, the people unwelcoming, and there’s basically no jobs. Traffic is awful and people are shot in the streets regularly over minor spats.
Please spread the word.
Apropos of nothing…Ever notice that when the evil, fascist, dirty rotten, murderous, evil capitalist, evil racist Americans roll into a country, you never see hundreds/thousands of refugees desperately clinging to the airplanes and helicopters of the departing regime? Never see legions of people crowding dusty back roads towing carts of their few belongings and frail relatives behind them. Navys of boat people do not take to the seas to escape from the evil fascist dirty roteten evil racist fascist evil Americans. Funny that. Just not funny ha-ha. Also funny no one ever mentions this.
Mme. Lolcat, PST, Daniel:
I wonder why jobs in social work seem so frequently filled by crazy people. Does no one else apply?
Possibly useful analogy: I understand that the field of psychology tends to attract people who have psychological problems….Furthermore, the left now controls the field of social work: it can be very difficult to get a degree, much less get hired, if you are a conservative.
Social work doesn’t pay very well, requires excess schooling and credentials to get into, and is funded almost entirely and capriciously by government. It attracts people for whom doing social work is more important than financial stability. This class of people tends to contain rather a lot of people avoiding dealing with their own problems by “helping” others.
What occurs to me is that the weird assertions that bubble up from the social and behavioural sciences are a reaction to the incipient realization that there’s really no there, there, and coming up with a gnosis accessible only to the pros is their one means of staying relevant to human experience and continuing to sell tickets to the monkey-show. Some people shake their heads and laugh it off, but some – usually uncritical, usually unoriginal, often afflicted with “impostor syndrome”, desperate for the story-behind-the-story, and withal easy marks for mental domination – are inspired to take the whole business up as a vocation.
Psychoanalysis is an instrument which subtle people use in order to think superbly about inmost matters, which the crude use to know many things that cannot be known, and which everybody can use to move in on everybody else. (George P. Elliott, “The Enemies of Intimacy”, 1980)
Moving in on everybody else and the pretence of mind-reading are vital life skills in that world, a world that HR departments and the like are enveloping ordinary people with as fast as they can manage it. Once you can read another’s mind it’s a short and pleasant hop to dismissing any arguments he might make as motivated reasoning (Jack Lewis’s “Bulverism”). It is unnecessary to seek further for an explanation of Bulverism’s appeal to the crude and mediocre.*
*Shameless plagiarism from Christopher Lasch.
Apropos of nothing…
Nay. ‘Tis appropriate to mention. Watching clips of fellow humans falling to their death whilst trying to escape by hanging onto an American aircraft is just…
I haven’t felt this ill about the state of the world since 9/11. May God have mercy upon their souls.
*goes away quietly*
I have no pity for them.
Apropos…..
Afghanistan?
What a shame that Joe Biden isn’t alive to witness this debacle.
I’ll get me coat…
We lived in Texas (Fort Hood) in the early ‘60s. About all I remember is riding the mechanical horsie at the civilian grocery in Killeen, and my brother declaring war on the appropriately Texas-sized crickets that infested the basement. Every evening he’d go down there with a shoe and you’d hear whap-whap-whap.
And God, was it hot.
What, no scorpions? Our first house was in Killeen and while walking barefoot in said house and seeing a scorpion in the rug, I realized that I had a scorpion colored rug after I couldn’t find it after walking away to get a weapon to kill it.
Pity the poor Angus’s, we are the most downtrodden of the white male population.
Anguses. The plural of Angus is Anguses. Or Angi, if you insist on applying Latin grammar to an English sentence about people in Scotland. I don’t recommend it.
Mainly all I remember about Texas is that it stank of chillies. They do grow a lot of chillies there.
Funnily enough, Mexico stank of Mexicans. For much the same reason.
See? Texas is a hellscape which you would not wish on your worst enemies. Stay away. Stay far, far away.
Tell everyone you know lest they be tempted by lies and propaganda to the contrary.
@Sam
It’s too late, my family and I have already planned our move for early next year.
Texas is a hellscape which you would not wish on your worst enemies. Stay away. Stay far, far away.
Yeah, too late for that. Tried the same with Florida. At least y’all don’t have to counter your state’s tourism bureau…well not as much. And no, you cannot have any of our hurricane allocation. And get your own alligators.
And further more, you Brits and your obsession with our
baked beans has got to stop!
*ping*
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Re-verify range to target weekend. One ping only.
Richard, my brother was stung by a scorpion at school one day. It crawled up his back and no one, including he, noticed, then stung his neck. He says it hurt like crazy for an hour and then was okay. The school nurse put something on it but it didn’t help much. he just had to wait it out.
Can someone help me understand how the Taliban waged such an effective campaign despite their glaring lack of female, black, gay, and trans representation? I have it on good authority that all organizations benefit from such diversity.
Anguses, Latin is quite inappropriate. The correct plural is of course the Greek, Angapodes. This follows the same rule as applied to Octopus (a word derived from Greek), for which the correct plural is Octapodes, as all should know.
Romani ite domum!
Sam: Shhhhh!
The Taliban must completely baffle our rulers. Not only are they uninterested in diversity per se, they take their religion seriously.
It’s practically sociopathic.
Yes, practically.
*ping*
Yes, practically.
Bless you, sirs. Should your enemies find themselves with a companion in the shower, may it have eight legs.
Yes, practically.
If someone thinks that an ideal opportunity to propagate their own hardline trans ideology is when dealing with a woman who’s very recently been raped and in serious distress, and if that someone thinks an embrace of said transgender ideology is mandatory in those circumstances, and that any demurral is “unacceptable” and must be “challenged,” then this suggests a mind unmoored from reality. Indeed, it suggests narcissism and spite.
In entirely unrelated news, Cluster B personality disorders are remarkably common among transgender individuals, with studies suggesting rates of between 40% and 80%.
WTP
https://youtu.be/wW25INh9zhQ
Despite my nations fondness for baked beans there is little doubt that Ann Margret is best enjoyed without being immersed in them.
practically sociopathic
Band name.
Therapy is political? Since when?
Since we stopped giving would-be commissars the boot.
Anguses. The plural of Angus is Anguses
Anguis.
What’s Gaelic for pedantic, again?
Texas is a hellscape
I came here to kill scorpions and chew bubblegum. And I’m all out of bubblegum.
this suggests a mind unmoored from reality
The devil you say.
there is little doubt that Ann Margret is best enjoyed without being immersed in them.
True. Hadn’t watched that video in some time now. Thanks. Though sadly, I suspect about 2/3 of the guys dancing with her there are gay. OK, maybe not sadly for them. But YKWIM.