See How Complicated She Is
Because retroactive lesbianism is apparently a thing:
Readers are invited to share their own dating dramas, from minor complications to outright catastrophes, in the comments.
Because retroactive lesbianism is apparently a thing:
Readers are invited to share their own dating dramas, from minor complications to outright catastrophes, in the comments.
So what if ‘they’ de-transition? Can Penny Dreadful still say she’s dated a woman? Or would that be ‘violence’?
Oh, and while I wait for new seasons of Bosch and The Expanse, I’m also on the lookout for binge-able TV dramas. Recommendations would be appreciated.
I’ve done the ‘didn’t realize it was a date’ thing. Only once. 🙂
I’ve done the ‘didn’t realize it was a date’ thing.
Well, don’t leave us hanging. Don’t worry, we won’t judge.
Not to your face.
Pretty sure she’s misgendering her exes/culturally appropriating lesbianism there. If they didn’t identify as women, they weren’t women, isn’t that the *cough* logic?
Alternatively, our intrepid reporter won’t be able to know her own sexuality until her last ex has died, just in case of deathbed transitions.
Speaking of dating dramas.
Suggestions: The Spy is a new Netflix series. Enjoying it so far.
New Jack Ryan on Amazon Prime soon. The first season was brilliant.
Thanks.
I’d say there’s something wrong with your social circles and/or your dating choies if it turns out that half the men you dated are now going around saying they’re women.
But then I don’t live in Guardian world.
Try Goliath on Amazon Prime.
Ta.
Speaking of TV, I did try Sky’s Catherine the Great recently, but despite the might of Helen Mirren, it never quite hits its mark. The first episode is written and edited so poorly it’s practically incoherent. It gets better, but not by much.
I assume you’ve seen Dark, and Vikings?
Thanks. I see I’m going to have to start writing a list.
Oh, I can do Laurie one better. When I was a teenager I dated a lot of women who didn’t realize that they even existed. And yet even others who didn’t realize that I existed. Or at least existed in the context in which I dated them. Uber woke or TMI? Or perhaps woke isn’t the word…No one told me that the 21st century would be so confusing.
But then I don’t live in Guardian world
I think that in that world, they think there’s something wrong when only half the men you dated now think they’re women.
It’s like the joy of “circumgenderism”, where you’re physically male and think you’re male, too. Well, that means you’re male, doesn’t it? No, not if you self-identify as trans, and feel that you should have been born female and transitioned to male.
All of the drama, without any doctor’s appointments or having to buy a new wardrobe! It’s the new fad!
Of course, “real” transgenders are upset by this because, as one said flat out that “I learned that people will literally do anything to get attention or earn oppression points.”
Yes, transgenders are now openly admitting that they have a point system for their victimhood mentality.
Everybody wants to be at the back of the bus these days, it seems.
Just finished binging Man in the High Tower, a bit facile, but I couldn’t stop watching.
a bit facile, but I couldn’t stop watching.
I don’t mind trashy TV. For instance, I’ve been watching The Blacklist, even though half the cast are, at best, mediocre and the whole thing jumped the shark a couple of seasons ago.
Speaking of dating dramas.
From the comments there:
“Oh Noes! Hot young men aren’t prepared to commit themselves legally, financially and emotionally to me and provided for my children”
That summarizes the problem many women are complaining about much better than I could have.
I am definitely stealing it.
After dating for about a year I give a woman access to the bank account I use for paying bills, we had just moved in so it made some sense. She burned through $3,000 and bounced nearly 700 dollars in checks in a couple of weeks.
Thank goodness I hadn’t given her access to my personal account and savings.. she would have ruined me.
Worse, three months after I’d broken up with her she attempted to pay her utilities from my account. I emailed her and told her to replace it by the end of the day or I’d call the cops. She did, and I changed banks.
She had the gall to call me an asshole… because I wouldn’t let her steal from me.
three months after I’d broken up with her she attempted to pay her utilities from my account.
Looks like SumDumGuy is currently in the lead in our Dating Horror Stories competition. I’d better think of a prize.
Remember, don’t spare those sordid and humiliating details.
the whole thing jumped the shark a couple of seasons ago
That. My wife simply does not believe me when I tell her that James Spader was once a sex symbol. He and Val Kilmer should start a support group.
She had the gall to call me an asshole… because I wouldn’t let her steal from me.
Sounds like a story well-suited for Reddit’s r/choosingbeggars.
My wife simply does not believe me when I tell her that James Spader was once a sex symbol.
Oh, it’s hokum and has probably outstayed its welcome, and whatsherface, Megan Boone, can still barely act; but Spader is having fun and some of the criminal entourage are entertaining. And it turns out that’ll do, just about. A sort of low-expectation, low-commitment viewing.
David – as requested – just finished watching Unbelievable on Netflix. Having worked with teen foster kids, it was heartbreaking to see what the first rape victim went through and at every turn, adults that should have been protecting her (and often were paid to do so, such as social workers, counselors etc.) didn’t. She was thrown into the trash heap by ‘friends’, foster mums, police, social workers, counsellors, etc. But it does have a ‘happy’ ending.
Also finishing season four of Outlander on Netflix and I realized that Canada is now the go-to country for finding indigenous actors, which probably a good thing. Tantoo Cardinal made an appearance and I was trying to pin point the actor in the Mohawk Chief role. It wasn’t Graham Greene (Dancing with Wolves), Gordon Tootoosis is dead, it wasn’t Lorne Cardinal from Corner Gas. I had to wait for the credits – it was Tom Jackson (known for playing the chief on North of 60, and his touring Christmas songfest – Huron Christmas).
Plus in the credits it noted the Canadian casting agency, which given that the only non-Scottish/English roles were the indigenous actors, clearly they were mostly recruited from Canadian sources.
Good job guys
Worse, three months after I’d broken up with her she attempted to pay her utilities from my account.
A friend had something similar. His girlfriend went up north to care for ailing mother, and help at the bed&breakfast that said mother owned and ran. The mother recovered, but the girlfriend stayed. And stayed.
After several months of this, friend asks girl “are you coming back, or what?”. She comes back, borrows his credit card, and buys stuff for the B&B on it, and then heads back up north.
“Well, at least that’s over”, friend says.
Well, no.
When girlfriend borrowed his credit card, she went into a vendor run by a friend. This was the 1990s, when Visa cards were run though those carbon-copy machines. You put the card in the machine, swiped left to put the vendor imprint on the receipt, and then right to put card imprint. Girlfriend takes a dozen or so empty receipts, skips the vendor imprint, and imprints friend’s card.
Three months after they split up, he starts getting charges from the B&B on his credit card. She’d taken the carbon slips with his imprint, and then put it in the B&B’s visa imprinter to complete a transaction, charged to him.
When he cancelled the card, and the credit card companies started to investigate the B&B, girlfriend’s family of course blamed him for their woes, and said it was a good thing that girlfriend had broken up with him since he was such as asshole.
That was the first official word he’d heard that they were broken up, by the way. Despite the fact that she’d been gone for over six months at this point, and hadn’t called or written to him, as far as he knew, they were still officially together.
Not that he was a total fool. He changed the locks when he cancelled his cards. This turned out to be a good thing, as a few months later, his landlord informed him that she had shown up on the landlord’s doorstep complaining that her key didn’t work any more, and the landlord had to let her in. No news as to whether there was a loading van parked outside to clean out friend’s apartment or not, but I have my suspicions.
Sadly, I have another friend who has a similar story, but actually worse than this…
just finished watching Unbelievable on Netflix.
Thanks, but I’m not sure I’d enjoy it. Real-world squalor’s not my bag.
Here’s a story. It’s a bit controversial. I dated a woman. A real one. We were engaged 6 weeks later. We then (prepare for a shock) got married. Now prepare for another shock………….we are still married to each other after 37 years. Now that’s a really amazing story is it not?
Electric Dreams is kind of a poor man’s Black Mirror. Each episode is stand alone and can be hit or miss but like Mirror the subject matter is twitchy enough to keep interest. I hope there’s a second season.
David, you could try Tall Girl on Netflix if empathizing with the agonizing and frankly terrifying oppression experienced by a middle-class 16 year old American girl who’s – sit down for this – 6 foot and 1 inch tall (1.85 EU-approved meters) is your bag.
Now that’s a really amazing story is it not?
Statistically, yes. Congrats.
Sounds like a story well-suited for Reddit’s r/choosingbeggars.
I hadn’t seen that one. My current examplar of entitled douches is the 16 year old who was given a BMW for his 16th birthday, and drove it into a river because he wanted a Jaguar, instead.
I knew he wasn’t the most entitled git on the planet, but even I am somewhat disappointed at the amount of competition in that subreddit.
+1 for Unbelievable. Mindhunter is good. And as an antidote to the ‘oh dhaling so adorable Fleabag’ I enjoyed Gameface- rough around the edges but it should be…Roisin Conaty.
Just finished Criminal UK and about to embark on Criminal Spain, Criminal France and Criminal Germany to see how the same thing is approached.
Did you see Spotless a few years back?
“I’m a half-Jewish radical feminist.”
Is “half-Jewish” a race, a religion, or a sandwich?
Is “half-Jewish” a race, a religion, or a sandwich?
But see her collection of identity badges. See how they catch the light.
RE: BMW bad! Jaguar good!
We once got a perfectly good Irish Setter from a wealthy family whose teen daughter demanded that they get rid of the Irish Setter and buy her a Labradoodle, which was the fashionable dog that year. Another friend who bred and trained show horses told us about parents who expected a money-back guarantee that their daughter would win the state hunter/jumper title if they bought a horse from her.
Did you see Spotless a few years back?
No. I don’t actually watch a lot of TV. I’m usually here with you heathens.
I recommend ‘Justified’ which can be streamed on Amazon Prime.
Is “half-Jewish” a race, a religion, or a sandwich?
Was that meant to be a rye comment?
Was that meant to be a rye comment?
Oof, that’s a bit on the nose.
[ sees self out ]
Was that meant to be a rye comment?
These horrible Jewish jokes make me challa out loud.
[ sees self out ]

No, please. Take a seat.
Update to Titans Walk Among Us.
One of the “fearless masked heroes,” has had a karma moment. Alaa Alsoufi, the hero in the black balaclava and the orange t-shirt in the video has been receiving some unkind feedback on social media to the extent that his family run restaurant in Toronto has felt the need to shut down.
While I do not condone the kind of threatening behaviour the Alsoufi family has experienced, one shouldn’t be surprised that if you are going to run with Antifa, threaten 80-year-old women in walkers, and stand shoulder-to-shoulder with comrades who call said seniors nazis that you will not be targetted in some way.
What’s also interesting, is the Alsoufis arrived in Canada in 2015 from Syria having been sponsored by a Canadian organization. Within two years they were able to open a successful restaurant and become an immigration success story. Their son’s “activist” lifestyle seems an odd way of saying thanks. I’d say it’s an unusual way to try to fit in to a new country except there are enough of these SJWs in enough places to almost make it appear normal.
Their son’s “activist” lifestyle seems an odd way of saying thanks.
That.
one shouldn’t be surprised that if you are going to run with Antifa, threaten 80-year-old women in walkers…
According to the one tweet I saw about this, the family is claiming that although their son was at the demonstration he did not obstruct or threaten the woman and her husband. However, I do not know anything about the truth of their claim because I have not seen video which identifies their son and his activities in that “event”. Nonetheless, if you run with Antifa you can be presumed to be a bad guy.
According to the one tweet I saw about this…
If you watch the Andy Ngo video in David’s post linked to above you will see the woman and her husband are obstructed by 3 people. One of the people, the man in the black balaclava and orange t-shirt has been identified as Alsoufi. He doesn’t push or touch anyone in the video but he does obstruct the couple and he does close ranks with the other “protestors” who are screaming “Nazi Scum” as the couple tries to move forward.
There is a video out there showing Alsoufi “protesting” at other Antifa and LGQBT events, mostly unmasked. I can’t find the link at the moment.
She doesn’t look the type…
https://twitter.com/CourtNewsUK/status/1181842645540376576
By the way pst314 your last “challa out loud” comment didn’t cut the mustard. ;-p
If you watch the Andy Ngo video in David’s post linked to above you will see the woman and her husband are obstructed by 3 people. One…has been identified as Alsoufi.
Thank you very much!