Will Feminist Innovation Never Cease?
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A feminist educator in the United Kingdom is making a point not to step aside when men walk in her direction, playing what she refers to as “patriarchy chicken.” […] “A few days ago, I was having a bad morning: my train tickets were expensive, my train was delayed, and my coffee was cold,” [Dr Charlotte] Riley wrote. “But I cheered myself up by playing a game on my commute. The game is called Patriarchy Chicken, and the rules are simple: do not move out of the way for men.” If that sounds like something that would be ungentlemanly conduct if perpetrated by a man, you would be correct in your assessment.
Dr Riley, you’ll note, is a grown woman.
Our feminist lecturer’s New Statesman article, in which she elaborates on Patriarchy Chicken and its allegedly empowering effects, can be found here. We’re told, somewhat implausibly, “It’s important to note that Patriarchy Chicken isn’t about anger.” When not applauding herself for repeatedly and deliberately colliding with male commuters, Dr Riley informs us that “war and peace can only be understood through gender.”
Also, open thread.
I fully support your ambitious idea, Pogonip. I recall that the cookbooks of my mother’s generation were full of common sense and practical ideas, not the latest fads, or How to Make your Meal Look Like a Pagoda. Mum and grandma knew all sorts of clever non-cooking uses for things like vinegar and baking soda. These days I wouldn’t know where to look for baking soda in a supermarke.
And if you can include appendices on the Elements of Grammar and Spelling, and Ordinary Everyday Politeness, that would be a welcome bonus.
Harrrumpph.
Many young punks with MBA degrees would benefit from such policies–as would the companies
Many of the academics teaching these young punks in their MBAs would benefit from such.
In regard to teaching HomeEc, I would add shop. I truly feel I was cheated in my education when they steered us so-called “smart” kids away from shop. At the prep school where I spent 6-8 grades it wasn’t even offered. To anyone.
One look at vintage photos from the early to mid 20th Century is to see people as well dressed as they could afford.
I’ve been interviewing for what is hopefully my last job. I wear a suit and tie to interviews. If I have to sit down across from one more f’n millennial or x-er in cargo shorts, flip-flops, and a concert t-shirt from a band their mother was too young to have attended, I’m gonna strangle somebody.
The honorable Mayor of New York City.
Hi ACToldfart: You find the baking soda in the same area you find the cooking oils, the seasonings, the flour, and often the cake mixes. So as not to make it too easy, the cheap white vinegar is usually in with the salad dressing.
I also hate modern cookbooks, full of trendy, expensive ingredients.
I’d like to find an old book (40’s—ca. 1965) about housekeeping. The new ones waste too much time reassuring readers—or, more likely, the editors—that it’s really okay to like your abode and want to keep it pleasant, which is hard to do if you ignore spills or cat puke for six months because liberated women aren’t interested in housekeeping. Don Aslett’s books are great for the mechanics of cleaning but he doesn’t address making your house a home. Martha Stewart did, but she assumed you had unlimited time and money. There used to be books on the subject for the average woman.
I didn’t get to take shop either. I wish I had.
The honorable Mayor of New York City.
I’m guessing he doesn’t read his own twit bio.
I’m gonna strangle somebody.
I’m 7 months and 8 days until retirement. Just hope I can find enough peace in that time not to shove one of my perpetual jr-high mean girl staffers down 4 flights of stairs in the meantime.
I’m SO done.
Hi WTP,
My employer takes itself very seriously indeed, so no one, not even the millennials, can wear shorts. They have tried periodically to force everyone to dress up (with no clothing allowance in our pay) but after a while they lose interest and things return to normal. My feeling has always been, you pay a uniform/clothing allowance and I’ll buy a Ronald McDonald costume and wear it to work if you like, but if you’re not buying my clothes, don’t tell me how to dress. I was once going to take a Christmas job at Target till I found out employees buy those red shirts and tan pants. Nope. Bye. Not surprisingly, at least not to me, Target, once the favored store of the woke, turned out to be as unpleasant a place to work as any other big-box. I remember the woke waxing righteous about Walmart’s policy of locking the fire doors, till a couple of Targets were caught doing the same, when the woke concern for oppressed Walmart suddenly evaporated.
I grew up in the middle class; the American middle class held the very sensible view that an employer shouldn’t demand things he isn’t willing to pay for. The middle class is gone now, and so, as far as I can tell, is that idea.
I also hate modern cookbooks, full of trendy, expensive ingredients
I have a fair number of cookbooks, but my usual “go-to” one is “The Good Housekeeping Illustrated Cookbook” published 1980. It isn’t just recipes but all sorts of information on food – like cuts of meat — and cooking & baking tips and techniques. Photos and drawings.
Heh … still around.
His honor is right. There is too much money in the wrong hands. Jeff Bezos should pay taxes on his billion dollars, especially since he’s been caught using it to give his U.S. employees heat stroke. OSHA got involved in that one, and I can assure you that OSHA’s not going to touch anything unless it’s likely to result in mass casualties.
Conservatives often confuse the (somewhat) defensible idea that’s it’s OK to have a billion dollars with the indefensible idea that a guy who has a billion dollars is always a good guy and so he should get a free ride. Our grandparents knew better. During the presidency of Dwight Eisenhower, the top marginal tax rate was somewhere around 90%. Not coincidentally, that was the height of U. S. prosperity. Civilization costs money to maintain. We all benefit from civilization, but people like Bezos benefit more than the rest of us and thus should pay more. The idea that they should pay NOTHING but get all the benefits everyone else gets, and a lot more besides, is one of the ones that has destroyed America.
I guess I better add a Civics section, too. 😄. My 8-volume “Stuff Grandma and Mom Knew” can sag the shelf beside Darleen’s 6-volume “The Joys of Mending.”
Pogonip: when my sister married years ago our grandmother gave her a well-thumbed copy of Irma Rombauer’s “Joy of Cooking” which had also been used by HER mother and grandmother. Been quite a while since I looked through it but it had plenty of helpful advice, my favorite among which being the assurance that there was NO substitute for muffin rings when making english muffins but if they were not available in the shop you should simply have the tinner cut some for you.
I don’t think we have tinsmiths in the U. S. any more, at least not on a scale small enough to serve people needing a few muffin rings. It’s hard enough to find a good knife-sharpener.
If you can find a copy, get Best Recipes From The Backs Of Bottles, Boxes, Cans, And Jars by Ceil Dyer. There were originally 3 slim paperback volumes, all worthwhile, but they were consolidated into a fat hardback that’s the better buy, if you can find it. Good quick recipes with ingredients that are readily available. (Another annoying thing about modern cookbooks, written, as they are, by and for people with lots of time and money, is that they tend to send you on quests for $50/lb grass-fed Iranian unicorn meat and $20/lb Szechwan red fairy dust.)
During the presidency of Dwight Eisenhower, the top marginal tax rate was somewhere around 90%.
Which no one paid because it was the government’s stick to force people into accepted behaviors in order to get tax write-offs
Not coincidentally, that was the height of U. S. prosperity
Yes, coincidence. It was a unique time right after WWII and the ratcheting up the the Cold War – the rebuilding of the American economy coupled with the rebuilding of a war-devastated Europe.
I think Bezos is an ass. But if he made his money honestly, then it’s not skin off my nose since it is HIS property. Any cronyism on his part – IOW if his business is being treated differently than a small business, then YES, he’s not entitled to special treatment and he and his government cronys should be punished.
Close to 50% of American citizens pay NO Federal income tax. They need to have a little skin in the game. I’d love to see repeal of the 16th amendment. The Feds got along fine without it for 133 years.
In defense of the cookbook authors, people with time and money are pretty much their market. Consider an 18-year-old in Detroit, the sole support of her two children and their fathers. NO cookbook will do her much good unless she finds the means and time to learn how to read it, and even if one father or both were willing to stop playing video games and start cooking, he probably can’t read either. Or consider a grandmother along the Kentucky/Virginia border, working several minimum-wage jobs to support the grandchildren of whom she has custody. She probably can read and probably had a cookbook, but since they couldn’t make the rent and are now living in a motel, no hot plates allowed, no refrigeration except in winter, she can’t use a cookbook either. Nowadays cookbook writers have no market except the relatively affluent. So they write what those people want, and because those people don’t know what they don’t know, it will never occur to them that cooking can be anything but a status symbol and hobby.
I better stop clogging up David’s blog before he kicks me out and tells me to start my own. 😊. Next topic!
My wife got as a Christmas present a cookbook from one of those trendy paler chefs. The recipes have an undoubted flair and creativity, but the ingredients are utterly depressing: barely a single thing that is recognisable as food. All powders and extracts. He’s one of the guys behind the boom in ‘protein powders’ that you’ll now find at chemists.
I find her a tad annoying, but in Australia, Stephanie Alexander’s cookbooks are an absolute treasury of cooking information. Of the trendy U.K. cooks, that Fearnley-Whittingstall chap is very good. It’s no coincidence that both cooks focus on the traditional meals.
Sorry. Amend ‘paler’ to ‘paleo’. I accuse my spelllcheck for thoughtcrime and racism. 🙂
Sorry. Amend ‘paler’ to ‘paleo’. I blame my spellcheck for thoughtcrimeracism!
It must report for re-education: 24 hours of watching the female “Ghostbusters.”
(That one really annoyed me. They could have told a darn good story about the daughters of the original Ghostbusters carrying on—but no, writing that story would have been too much like work!)
Technology is not my friend today. 🙁
when my sister married years ago our grandmother gave her a well-thumbed copy of Irma Rombauer’s “Joy of Cooking”
I credit my learning to cook to two things 1) the Saturday morning cooking shows on PBS and 2) The Joy of Cooking. Watching Julia Child, The Frugal Gourmet, Yan Can Cooks, Mariane Esposito, Martha Stewart et al was the equivalent of attending the Cordon Bleu school in France or the Culinary Institute of America. These people taught you about ingredients and technique. They showed you how to cook.
The Joy of Cooking meanwhile showed you in illustrated fashion how to chop, cut, baste, make a sauce in an easy to understand way. My copy of the book is over 40 years old and now consists of individual sheets of paper held together with a rubber band since the binding gave out about 20 years ago.
Good luck learning to cook today. Despite the fact that there are several cable channels dedicated to food, no one teaches cooking. It’s all about foul mouthed reality shows and inane competitions trying to make a dish from a “mystery box” filled with idiotic and garbage ingredients. It seems that at least the men in a relationship will attempt to cook. Most young women today can’t boil water and think it’s somehow below them.
Very few households cook anymore. I went to “dinner” (we ordered in Thai) at my nephew’s trendy downtown lakeview apartment. He’d lived there for 5 years and had all the state-of-the-art appliances; they looked like they had just come out of the box. So, not much cooking going on there. Meanwhile, he complains he’ll never own his own home. I told him ordering in dinner and lunch 7 days of the week via UberEats and travelling three times a year to Europe, South America and the Caribbean just might be preventing him from saving up for a down payment.
My wife and I used to dine out a several times a month, but now we refuse to spend over a $100 for a meal that I can make better myself for under $30.
/rant
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I have just applied to Cosmpolitan for position as Dodgeball Editor. Never played it except under duress and hated it when I did, so obviously I’m best qualified to cover it.
I’m not laughing at that poor sick girl, I’m laughing at Cosmopolitan. I hope they don’t fire her when they see that. She’s got enough problems without losing her access to medical care.
Hi Steve,
When my son was little he got a big kick out of Frugal and that Cajun cook whose name I forget—he wore bib overalls and would go “Woo-ee!” and from somewhere on the floor would be a giggle and a little voice chirping an answering “Woo-ee!” 😄
I liked Yan too.
From the Archdruid, about halfway down: the Necronomnomnom. 😄😄😄
I gotta get a copy.
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(If you like tentacled horrors, the Archdruid—Mr. Druid in business, Arch to friends and family—is your man. Not that he himself is a tentacled horror, but he also likes them and the topic comes up a lot. Cthulhu fhtagn!)
no one teaches cooking
I absolutely loved The Galloping Gourmet the rest of the Merry Band you mentioned.
Of contemporary cooking shows, I miss Good Eats – Good cooking meets SCIENCE!! (and a fair amount of good humor).
Most of the competition shows annoy me no end. But hubby and I love The Great British Baking Show running on Netflix. I’ve learned of baked things I didn’t know existed and I’m delighted that the bakers involved are such good sports! Not a whine, snark or nasty thing to say about their competitors or the competition when they are cut.
I want to spend an afternoon at tea with Mary Berry. 🙂
I’ll buy a Ronald McDonald costume and wear it to work if you like, but if you’re not buying my clothes, don’t tell me how to dress.
When you have a job that generally requires a bachelors degree and more often today, a masters degree, where you make from $75K-$150K per year, you don’t need to have your daddy employer clothe you. They shouldn’t have to tell you how to dress yourself, let alone buy your clothes.
Even putting that aside, any grown up should understand the responsibility to look presentable when leaving the house to do anything other than manual labor. I’m by no means a fashionista. I never really cared for wearing ties, especially in humid climates. Though there is a time and place for formalish dress. A simple polo shirt and at the very least clean and presentable blue jeans if not proper dress pants is not too much to ask. Poor people 50 years ago dressed better than many of the wealthy do today. This really shouldn’t be such a big deal and it stuns me that people who should know better fail to understand these things.
Say, I have an idea, lets let in every “migrant” from the third world and offer them free housing, medical, and give them a stipend.
Hold on, you are a Yank ?, where’s your visa for your business trip ?
Good idea, what with all those American tourists running amuck, stabbing people, burning cars, running them over. So much for the “open borders” crowd.
I haven’t watched TV in at least 15 years because there seemed to be nothing on at the time except “reality” shows and comedies written for 12-year-olds who like to giggle at dirty words. Nothing wrong with that, but I am over 12, been there, done that,and so those weren’t for me.
My son got fixated on the “Roseanne” rehash (the autistic get fixated on things for no reason they can explain to the non-autistic) and I watched the first two of those, thought they were terrible, and managed to be granted a dispensation from watching the rest.
Politically correct just ain’t funny. I once heard a pretty funny routine about “Gays Shouldn’t Be Blatant” (“your boss has pin-up girls all over his office, but you can’t have a microscopic picture of you and your real boyfriend anywhere, because gays shouldn’t be blatant”) but that was back when it was politically incorrect to be gay, so the rule was never broken.
In regard to teaching HomeEc, I would add shop.
Yes!!!!!
Pogo:
…that Cajun cook whose name I forget…
Paul Prudhomme or Emeril Lagasse? Emeril use to say “BAM” when he through a spicy ingredient into the pan. By the way, if you like Cajun, check out the website NOLA Cuisine. The recipes are outstanding and easy to follow. I’ve been using his recipes since 2005. I made a big batch of Chicken/Shrimp/Sausage Gumbo this weekend. It really take the chill off of the dismal March we’ve been having in Southern Ontario.
I absolutely loved The Galloping Gourmet…
Me too! That is until he found religion and started cooking healthy…;-)
Son says the guy’s name was Justin Wilson.
Paul Prudhomme wrote the Popeye’s chicken recipes. I like their chicken but not that seasoning they use in the side dishes.
It was a unique time right after WWII and the ratcheting up the the Cold War – the rebuilding of the American economy coupled with the rebuilding of a war-devastated Europe.
Yes. Many American industries had no serious competition because of the devastation of Europe, so they had the American market pretty much to themselves.
Justin Wilson…”I gar-on-tee”
…a cookbook from one of those trendy paleo chefs…the ingredients…All powders and extracts.
Because in the Paleolithic humans relied so heavily on protein powders. 🙂
Seeing how as I never had a job requiring any sort of degree, I will cheerfully continue on in the grand tradition of organized labor, nay, of America in general: “You want it? Great! But you gotta pay for it.”
I do agree that the professions are a gray area here. Some people feel better if their doctor, lawyer, accountant dresses up. I was talking about average jobs held by average people, e.g. big-box employees.
Another of the insidious falsehoods that destroyed America was persuading everyone that a job and a profession are the same thing. Thus the tiresome lectures to “be professional” directed at minimum-wage employees and the pervasive nasal whining about same by young white female educated fools.
What IS it with that Godawful young-white-American-female whiny nasal accent? American men, American women who aren’t white, and white American women over about 40 don’t talk like that, so where on earth did the white girls pick up Kazoospeak?
WTP: THAT’S him! Son adored him.
Forgot about Justin.
Where is our genial host? Did we inspire him to run out and buy “The Flamethrower Cookbook”?
Does GB have Daylight Savings Time? I know Ontario has, or had, it as it was on in the summers we went.
You readers are fine human beings. You couldn’t have these lively debates on a liberal-American site. They do not tolerate dissent or even indifference, as in “I don’t care about Trump’s latest sin.”
As I’m sure David would say if he were here, “Free booze for everybody!”
Pogo they do have DST in the UK, however, they don’t switch the clocks until March 31st. I’m in the eastern time zone. There’s usually 5 hours difference between England and me and for the next couple of weeks there will be 4.
Some U. S. states are flirting w/the sensible idea of just staying on fast time year round. DST as it stands never made much sense to me. You should have fast time in the winter. That’s when it gets dark at 1700 (in this latitude.), that’s when you want more daylight. You don’t need more daylight in the summer. On 4 July, when we have fireworks, it doesn’t get dark till 2200, so little kids get awfully tired.
Darleen, in the unlikely event you can find it, the 1948 Good Housekeeping cookbook was the best ever. My mom bought that when she married and used it till, literally, the binding fell apart and the pages crumbled. The 1950 edition, black cover with little food cartoons all over, is much the same except it omits killing and butchering instructions.
Also, everybody, seek out the old Farm Journal cookbooks that were compiled and edited by Nell B. Nichols. Uniformly excellent.
David, can we have a topic about old books to recommend to each other and to young sprouts?
Nell was not only a darn good cook, she was also a prophet. Her books talk about how well country women do this and country women do that, implying that city people can barely fry an egg. And lo and behold, I hear a lot of anecdotes to the effect that this so these days.
Er, “…this IS so…” Sorry.
Can you believe I used to get paid to type words? 😯
2 more questions re my proposal:
1). Along with courtesy and grammar, should I address Kazoospeak, that your big presentation may well be better received if it doesn’t sound like a duck is quacking it out? It may be that most people LIKE Kazoospeak, after all. What do you all think? (We have a local TV weather lady whose forecasts are very accurate—but I have to read them on the Internet because of her Kazoospeak coupled with what is probably a neurological disorder—her voice is thick, shaky, and changes pitch at random. I can’t understand her half the time.)
2.). Should I address safety? A lot of young folks live in cities, after all, and they’re dangerous places. And there are everyday dangers too, like kitchen fires.
Are we talking about “vocal fry”? That’s the technical name for the croaky way of speaking that’s become common recently.
Men do it to, but you notice less with deep voices.
Ah, vocal fry as the successor to Valley Girl.
No, I’ve heard vocal fry. Kazoospeak is less croak and more quack. Nasal, rather than deep down in the throat.
Hello again Pogonip. With respect, I think KazooSpeak is an nth order issue, where n is getting quite large. I suggest start from the centre and work outwards, ie look after No 1 first. Perhaps the volume on Defence of Person and Home Against Barbarity could include a section on How to Attain Satori through Clever Use of the Mute and Subtitle Buttons on Your TV Remote Control. The Kazoo speakers can fend for themselves.
Kitchen fires could be covered under a Chapter on Ingredients and Appliances No Sensible Kitchen Needs, perhaps with a little homily that our parents’ generation were way better cooks than we are, and the only use that entire generation had for a flamethrower was persuading Japanese troops that the defence of places like Saipan and Okinawa was not necessarily to their advantage.
[ Pours second mug of coffee, surveys thread wreckage. ]
Gasbags, the lot of you.